When I started to read erotic ménage, I remember how lost I was with some of the acronyms that authors and publishers used. Most of the time, I thought 1/ it was another language from another planet and 2/ they did not want to include me and welcome me on their planet. With time and since I am the opposite of a shy person (no kiddin’), I asked, then I guessed. So I know some of you are still frustrated to figure it out.
On top of having my own blog here, I discovered a while a go goodreads. This is a fantastic place not only to be aware of new releases but also to see what the other readers think about a book you may consider reading. There are tons of options that are interesting. It is a great social place about books, all kind of books. It is up to us to make our own list of genre we like, author we like and be around people who have the same tastes.
What I find very nice is that I can easily find the menage category, the menage authors and the old and new releases on top of a general review. Some groups also are very interesting to belong to and many exist which you can pick as per your tastes. I am not the best person to promote this place but trust me to say that it is a very interesting place.
One of a group I like very much is Menage Readers. And there you can find tons of goodies to read, share your opinion and find new books to read. BookieNookie, one of the mod, listed the following.
I asked her the authorization to copy and paste it on my blog and I give her full credit on it. I encourage you to visit her blog, to follow her on twitter and to sign in on goodreads and ask to join her group.
Who is sleeping with whom?
M/F – male and female couple
M/M – male and male couple
F/F – female and female couple
M/F/M – menage where both men have sex with the female but not each other
F/M/F – menage where both women have sex with the male but not each other
M/M/F – menage where everyone has sex
F/F/M – menage where everyone has sex
F/M/M – menage where everyone has sex
M/F/F – menage where everyone has sex
F/M/M/M – men have sex w/ female-she probably doesn’t end up w/ one of them
M/F/M/M – men have sex w/ female-she DOES end up w/ one or more of them
M/M/F/M – men to the left of the (f) have sex w/ each other and the female. man to the right only has sex w/ the female. she probably ends up w/ 1 or 2 of the men
M/M/M/F – the three men have sex w/ each other and the female.
BDSM – What goes on in the dungeon?
BDSM – This can be deciphered a few different ways:
B/D = Bondage & Discipline
S/M = Sadism & Masochism
D/s = Dominance & Submission
S/M = Slave & Master
The term “BDSM” is used in a general sense to describe any situation or practice which includes erotic power exchange, dominance and submission, pain play, bondage, sensation play, or anything related to these.
Roles in BDSM: Who does what?
Top/Dominant – is partner who is given control
Bottom/Submissive – partner who gives up control
Switch – switches between roles of the dominant and submissive
More information about the BDSM culture:
Sexual Abbreviations and Words
ABF – Adult Breastfeeding
Age-Play – A form of role play in which a participant assumes the role of someone of a different age. Typically, the submissive partner will assume the role of a very young (and hence powerless) child.
Animal-Play – The sub acts or dresses like an animal (puppy, pony, cow, etc.)
ANR – Adult Nursing Relationship (also adult breastfeeding)
Apadravya – This male piercing is typically placed running vertically from the top of the Glans Penis and exiting at the bottom just behind it. This piercing is used to increase sexual pleasure for both the wearer and his partner. **NSFW** Apadravya Photo
Anilingus – Any sexual activity involving licking, kissing, or tonguing another person’s anus.
Brothercest – Menage where brothers have sex with each other as well as the third party
Bukake – to ejaculate on a woman’s face (mentioned in the description of Vow of Silence)
CD – Cross dressing – The act of one dressing up as the gender that they do not normally find themselves living as. This is done usually as a hobby, in order to live out fantasies, for drag shows/parties, or for sexual excitement. Not necessarily gay.
CFNM – Clothed Female Nude Male – this is exactly what it sounds like.
CBT – Cock and Ball Torture
Cock Stuffing – involves using thin, cylindrical items (thermometers, wire, rubber worms, etc.), & inserting them into the dick hole. Over many months, continue to gradually ream out the hole-at-the-head with larger items, thus ultimately allowing your “buddy” to obtain the goal of fucking your urethra.
Dubious Consent or dub con – Similar to non-con, but where the “victim” is given an ultimatum: Have sex with me or Die. So victim must consent to sex to stay alive.
DP – Double Penetration – penis or phallus in both vagina & anus
Forced seduction – when a heroine who loses virginity by force, a heroine who initially dislikes and actively resists the hero’s seduction, only ultimately to be overcome by desire.
LGBTQ – refers to “lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender” people. the “Q” was later added for those who identify as queer and are questioning their sexual identity.
Non-con – non consensual sex
Pegging is when a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo.
Prince Albert – Male piercing done through the Urethra & exiting slightly behind the Glans Penis on the underside of the penis. Special ‘PA’ jewelry or a Curved Barbell can also be used. This piercing is used to increase sexual pleasure for both the wearer & his partner. **NSFW** Prince Albert Photo
Rimming – Licking the anus
St. Andrews Cross – Bondage achieved by spreading the appendages and fastening them with chains
Scat – Poop
Squirting (or gushing or female ejaculation) – refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before an orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be a topic of debate among medical professionals and is related to doubts over the existence of the G-Spot. (Wikipedia)
Taint – On a man – area between sack & crack AND On a woman – area between giney & heinie
TPE – Total Power Exchange relationship where the dominant or owner has complete authority and influence over the submissive’s life, making the majority of decisions…the dominant partner gets complete power at all times.
TS – Transgender – This is a broad term that includes transexual (pre/non or post-op), non-gender, bi (tri & multi) gender, androgynes, etc.
Twincest – Menage where twins have sex with each other as well as the third party.
Twink is a gay slang term describing a young or young-looking gay man (ages 18–23 ) with a slender build, little or no body hair, and no facial hair – generally used to describe an effeminate male.
W/S – Water Sports aka golden showers or being urinated on More on W/S or Watersports
ARC – Advanced Reading Copy
BOB – Battery Operated Boyfriend
BTW – By The Way
DD = Dear Daughter
DH = Dear Husband
DNF – Did Not Finish
DS = Dear Son
FIL = Father in Law
GFY – Gay For You
GLBT – Gay, Lesbian, Bi, Transexual
FWIW = For What It’s Worth
HEA – Happily Ever After
HFN – Happy For Now
IMO – In My Opinion
IMHO – In My Humble Opinion or In My Honest Opinion
IRL – In Real Life
LGBTQ – Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender/sexual, Queer/Questioning their sexual identity
LMAO – Laughing My Ass Off
LMFAO – Laughing My Fucking Ass Off
MIL = Mother in Law
NSFW – Not Safe For Work
NWS – Not Work Safe
OFY – Out For You
PM – Personal or Private Message sent to person’s inbox
PNR – Paranormal Romance
PWP – Porn Without Plot (and no that is not a typo…it is PWP)
ROFLMAO – Rolling on the Floor Laughing My Ass Off
SMH – Shakes My Head
TTYL – Talk To You Later
UF – Urban Fantasy
UFR – Urban Fantasy Romance
UST – Unresolved Sexual Tension